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Help! My child is struggling with food, what can I do?

Childhood and adolescence is a time of rapid growth and development, oftentimes involving many new experiences, life stressors, and increasing independence. There are many factors that can contribute to a child struggling with food. Learn more here and read this new blog post!

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Body image as a Relationship

A relationship can be defined as the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or as the state of being connected.

When discussing body image and body Image healing, it is very helpful to think of your relationship with your body as just that- a relationship. Our relationship with our body is similar to other relationships in our lives, like our relationships with our significant others, our friends, and other acquaintances.

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Parts Work in Eating Disorder Recovery

Parts Work or Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a model developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. Dr. Schwartz has formerly served as a family therapist and he recognized a significant resemblance between the interpersonal dynamics relationships with family members and our own relationship we have with our internal personality parts.

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Identifying the Eating Disorder Voice

While at sometimes it can be pretty easy to decipher between the eating disorder voice and our authentic voice, at other times it can be pretty difficult. It can be hard to understand where some of our thoughts are coming from, if they are our own or if they are the eating disorder voice disguised as our own.

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How Self-Compassion can help Body Image

When the idea of body image work feels too overwhelming, start with self-compassion towards oneself around the suffering of body image distress.

Kristin Neff, a self-compassion researcher, author, and Associate Professor, describes self-compassion as having three different components.

  1. self kindness vs self judgement

  2. common humanity versus isolation

  3. mindfulness vs. over-identification

Self- Kindness is a very active stance and practice of soothing and taking care of one's suffering while self-judgment may look like judging and criticizing the suffering.

Common humanity is framing one’s experience as part of a larger human experience while isolation is isolating oneself and the experience.

Mindfulness allows us to notice our suffering and to be with the suffering as it is and be with it to then be able to give ourselves the caring and compassion we need.

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Pseudo Recovery or Recovered Enough

I love seeing all my clients reach their checkpoints! Eating and enjoying foods they haven't had in so long, making peace with their bodies, understanding the eating disorder, learning about how diet culture plays a role in the maintenance of their behaviors, and so much more! However, I want more for them and for you. I want you to go all the way to the finish line- to feel no ties to disordered eating, to have a full and compassionate relationship with food and your body. You deserve the world. You deserve full recovery.

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